There are two questions on the OK Cupid profile that I am unsure of how to answer.
The first is "drugs." I have always answered ""No" but the fact is, I have done lots of drugs in my days and still enjoy a few bong hits on a regular basis. But does answering anything other than "No" make the profile stand out for rejection? The answers provided should include something like, "an occasional joint is nice."
The other question has to do with the type of relationship being sought. I used to include "casual sex" but found myself wondering if that also may scare someone away. But the truth is, I'd love to have a few casual sexual relationships, missed out on that part of my life completely. But would putting that on the list plant a red flag that "this guy just wants to fuck," which is not wholly true. (I do most certainly want to fuck, but there's more to what I want in the big picture)
aural sex
5 hours ago

How about a truthful line, " Still sexually active, I enjoy the intimacy and pleasure that is the reward granted to two lovers who are good friends."
ReplyDeleteI don't answer the drug question. Just leave it blank. And why not put casual sex on? It's not like that's the ONLY thing you're listed as looking for.
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